You never know where you can get your inspiration. In the New York Times today, was an article by Joyce Wadler She told the story of a woman who dreamed of her very own gingerbread house (gingerbread trimming on the house.) It told of her marriage and difficult financial problems, but mostly it was about a woman who relied on herself to get what she wanted out of life and didn’t depend on her husband for that. Instead she appreciated his contribution and enjoyed the things they had in common while respecting their differences. Check it out. I found it inspiring. http://www.nytimes.com/2010/06/24/garden/24cottage.html?ref=garden. What are your thoughts?