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	<title>Comments on: For Women Who Date: A Good Relationship Takes Courage</title>
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	<description>Embrace Your Differences to Have a Highly Successful Long-Term Relationship</description>
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		<title>By: The Imperfect Spouse</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Imperfect Spouse</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 02:59:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sunny,
There&#039;s a difference between wanting something (a relationship or anything else) passionately and NEEDING the relationship.  If you can see your world going on with or without him/her (even though you want that person), that&#039;s cheerful detachment. That&#039;s where you have the power of choice (and the responsibility that goes with it.) I vote for &quot;cheerful detachment.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sunny,<br />
There&#8217;s a difference between wanting something (a relationship or anything else) passionately and NEEDING the relationship.  If you can see your world going on with or without him/her (even though you want that person), that&#8217;s cheerful detachment. That&#8217;s where you have the power of choice (and the responsibility that goes with it.) I vote for &#8220;cheerful detachment.</p>
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		<title>By: Sunny</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sunny</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Oct 2009 18:20:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>People say you have to want the relationship (or anything you want) hard enough, but you&#039;re saying to have &quot;cheerful detachment&quot;. Which is it?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>People say you have to want the relationship (or anything you want) hard enough, but you&#8217;re saying to have &#8220;cheerful detachment&#8221;. Which is it?</p>
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